Tough Topics with Picture Books: Death & Grief
By Angela Martinez, Children's Associate, Broken Arrow Library
When is a good time to talk about hard, complex topics with your little one? Do you know what age you would like to introduce the topic? Is there a “right” age? Like many caregivers, you are just waiting for that magical moment when your child is ready. However, when a child is “ready” is unique to that child, that child’s caregiver, and that family’s lived experience. When that time comes, the library is equipped to help you.
Picture books are a powerful tool for introducing complex topics to children because they combine visual storytelling with accessible language, making challenging ideas more relatable and easier to grasp. And did you know that picture books are actually intended for children from birth through 3rd grade?
The combination of illustrations and text creates a multisensory learning experience, engaging children’s imaginations while presenting abstract or difficult subjects in a concrete and visually appealing way. Adults reading alongside children can use the stories as a springboard for deeper conversations, tailoring explanations to their child’s age and comprehension level.
If it's time for a discussion about death and grief, try these books out. Some titles cover the loss of a parent, grandparent, or pet. However, some titles are appropriate for all types of loss. If these do not suit your child’s needs, reach out to your local library for assistance.
Drawn Onward by Daniel Nayeri
Popi's All Souls Song by C.K. Malone
Big Cat, Little Cat by Elisha Cooper
The Rough Patch by Brian Lies
Witch Hazel by Molly Idle
Still Mine by Jayne Pillemer
An Ordinary Day by Elana K. Arnold
The Heart and the Bottle by Oliver Jeffers
